Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Xa intombi yam ineencoko ezikhohlakeleyo noyise, imkhuthaza ngandlela zonke ukuba imgibe, phantse akunakwenzeka ukuyigcina ngaphakathi kwemida yokufaneleka. Kwaye umthembisa ngokuzala okukamama wakhe. Ngoko xa ethatha idick yakhe emlonyeni wakhe, wakhawuleza wakhawuleza. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza wathulula i-cum yakhe phezu kwehlumela lakhe elimnandi. Cool umxholo.